http://idealistcoach.com/ic1 Life, career, transition & wellness coaching for intelligent misfits, overachievers & socially conscious people Sun, 19 Feb 2012 16:19:54 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.1 http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2012/02/19/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-10-politics-of-sex-education-and-sexuality-policy/ http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2012/02/19/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-10-politics-of-sex-education-and-sexuality-policy/#comments Sun, 19 Feb 2012 16:19:54 +0000 Dave W. http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/?p=845 It’s a great disservice to talk or write about sex half-assedly. You need to talk about the entire ass, and all the other parts that go along with it. Maybe that one will end up on one of those little desk calendars someday… Some of the topics we’re most uncomfortable addressing are those that involve [...]

]]> http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2012/02/19/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-10-politics-of-sex-education-and-sexuality-policy/feed/ 0 http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2012/02/10/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-9-expanding-family-and-parenting-possibilities/ http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2012/02/10/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-9-expanding-family-and-parenting-possibilities/#comments Fri, 10 Feb 2012 05:00:01 +0000 Dave W. http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/?p=835 It’s often been said that “it takes a village to raise a child.” Some researchers believe that at one time, this was much more common in a very literal sense. Ryan and Jethá talk about the concept of “partible paternity” in sexually open cultures, i.e., those where women may have sex with multiple men and [...]

]]> http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2012/02/10/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-9-expanding-family-and-parenting-possibilities/feed/ 0 http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2012/02/05/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-8-localization-sex-and-community-interdependence/ http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2012/02/05/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-8-localization-sex-and-community-interdependence/#comments Sun, 05 Feb 2012 05:45:57 +0000 Dave W. http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/?p=833 The Argument for Localized Economies Our modern globalized system has many benefits, including availability of a wonderful array of household products and food choices, along with the cost and quality advantages that often (but not always) come with centralized production. A major issue is that the pendulum has swung too far in the direction of [...]

]]> http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2012/02/05/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-8-localization-sex-and-community-interdependence/feed/ 0 http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2012/01/27/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-7-fantasy-girl-giveaway-competition/ http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2012/01/27/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-7-fantasy-girl-giveaway-competition/#comments Fri, 27 Jan 2012 23:15:32 +0000 Dave W. http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/?p=980 This week I’m adding a fun change in pace to the discussion of heavy topics, and inviting your participation. I’d like you to help me celebrate the completion of two works that help to promote a more sex-positive culture: the dance single “Fantasy Girl” (your feedback welcome!) and the cookbook Vegan Chocolate Seduction: 23 Oralgasmic Recipes. [...]

]]> http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2012/01/27/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-7-fantasy-girl-giveaway-competition/feed/ 1 http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2012/01/21/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-6-sex-ethical-stereotyping-and-leadership-control/ http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2012/01/21/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-6-sex-ethical-stereotyping-and-leadership-control/#comments Sat, 21 Jan 2012 18:54:29 +0000 Dave W. http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/?p=837 I had originally planned this post for a few weeks later in the series. Given recent media accusations that presidential candidate Newt Gingrich requested an open marriage, alongside his angry response to them, I decided this topic was particularly timely. Even when I disagree with a candidate on certain issues, I feel sad for them [...]

]]> http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2012/01/21/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-6-sex-ethical-stereotyping-and-leadership-control/feed/ 5 http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2012/01/06/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-4-sex-related-competition-polyamory-and-our-environment/ http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2012/01/06/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-4-sex-related-competition-polyamory-and-our-environment/#comments Fri, 06 Jan 2012 21:55:53 +0000 Dave W. http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/?p=830 Does Skewed Sexual Energy Contribute to Environmental Destruction? Some individuals have examined how environmental issues impact sexual well-being, e.g., how pharmaceuticals and personal care products that find their way into water systems impact our sexual functioning. For example, why are more gender-ambiguous fish turning up in some rivers and streams? These are important questions. It’s [...]

]]> http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2012/01/06/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-4-sex-related-competition-polyamory-and-our-environment/feed/ 0 http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2011/12/23/department-store-greeting-swarm-a-fun-twist-on-the-holidays/ http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2011/12/23/department-store-greeting-swarm-a-fun-twist-on-the-holidays/#comments Fri, 23 Dec 2011 15:57:24 +0000 Dave W. http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/?p=913 Have you ever noticed the slightly frightened look you sometimes get the moment you lock eyes with a department store staff member, especially when they appear to be in a hurry? It’s the, “Omigosh, this person’s going to ask me for help, and I have 20 other things I’m expected to do right now as [...]

]]> http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2011/12/23/department-store-greeting-swarm-a-fun-twist-on-the-holidays/feed/ 0 http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2011/12/09/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-5-non-traditional-relationships-and-preserving-the-family/ http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2011/12/09/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-5-non-traditional-relationships-and-preserving-the-family/#comments Fri, 09 Dec 2011 22:46:35 +0000 Dave W. http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/?p=843 Many argue that “alternative lifestyles,” a term often used to refer to anyone not fitting into the heterosexual monogamous box, are a threat to the family structure, and thus a threat to the very fabric of our society. For example: “If our little Timmy sees our male neighbor kissing his male partner, he may also [...]

]]> http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2011/12/09/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-5-non-traditional-relationships-and-preserving-the-family/feed/ 0 http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2011/12/09/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-3-ecological-psychological-considerations-of-the-all-in-one-mate-expectation/ http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2011/12/09/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-3-ecological-psychological-considerations-of-the-all-in-one-mate-expectation/#comments Fri, 09 Dec 2011 21:50:33 +0000 Dave W. http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/?p=828 Throughout our upbringings and well into adulthood, we’re taught the same fairy tale plotline that’s reinforced by various movies, TV shows, books, family, friends, religious institutions, tax codes, and laws: We find a lifelong partner, soul mate, and ideal lover all wrapped up in one person. We have an amazing amount in common with them, [...]

]]> http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2011/12/09/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-3-ecological-psychological-considerations-of-the-all-in-one-mate-expectation/feed/ 0 http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2011/12/09/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-2-food-sex-and-ownership/ http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/2011/12/09/sex-in-a-sustainable-world-part-2-food-sex-and-ownership/#comments Fri, 09 Dec 2011 20:52:21 +0000 Dave W. http://idealistcoach.com/ic1/?p=826 Countless people around the globe have been protesting the financial system, blaming it for large disparities in economic wealth, and thus their unhappiness. A small percentage of individuals are living extremely fabulous lifestyles, while hundreds of thousands of people are at consistent risk of starving. Sure, there’s certainly a share of people with great financial [...]

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